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Not everyone has an addiction issue, many simply are seeking PERSONAL GROWTH as a life management tool. Likewise many blog readers are not Urban Fashionistas or always heterosexual. The Internet has opened up a world of exploration around sexuality of which London offers a cabinet of curiosities. Since my blog reflect the diversity of London’s multicultural, metrosexual make-up – so does my FEEDBACK.    ______________________________________________________________

"  Although we have never met I just wanted to drop you a note to tell you that I’ve read your Blogs submitted to the HOSPITAL CLUB site and each one has brought me up short ( in a good way ). 

So many people writing in this area come up with so much vanilla, that it’s really energising to find someone with the balls to tell it how it is.  "

Juliet Haygarth : Head of Communications  

The Hospital Club Covent Garden LONDON http://www.thehospitalclub.com

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Cherry Galena - I’ve put a comment up on your blog madge. . . fuckin amazin!
Steve Blower - Hi Madge, hows things/ Am loving the blog mate. Clayton Littlewood - I’m loving your new blog Madge – Lovely piece with Sebastian. It’s insightful, very well written and it’s fast becoming a daily stop off point. Facebook then you. Keith Conway - Another thought provoking and relevant piece of writing. Andy Jackson - Awesome as always!
John Pratt - Thought provoking blog as usual. Kim Bradford - You have no idea how happy reading what you write and the resulting comments make me feel. Anton Marinov - have been reading your blog – fabulous! just the right mix of " analysis " based on raw life material which makes it very easy to digest and " big " conclusions that are very spot on – bravo!

Sophie Strachan - I love reading your blog and info, but this one touched me personally.

Wayne T.- Keep writing the blog please! As someone trying to find my way through a few issues, your irreverant style is a welcome relief.

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There’s a lot of bollocks on the gay scene innit. There’s the presures to have fun fun fun 24-7-52, develop tough titty tits, wear overpriced la la knickers, and shag like a porner. At the same time gaypers are twasting our minds with gobbledecock extremes ranging from backstreet twink Porn Idol competitions to DKNY aspirational lifestyles . . and if you don’t keep a check on it you can easily wake up to find that the last ten years of your life you’ve been kidding yourself that trying to fit into any one of these lifestyles will MAKE. YOUR. LIFE. BETTER.
 
And in some instances, such occasions make us go a bit la la, a bit existential, a bit zinging, a bit zong. Some of us end up in therapy, some of us end up down the pub, some of us don’t say anything and carry on as if nothing is wrong. Anyway blah, blah, blah. 
The Swarmite blog offers life-coaching and therapy on a number of issues that can confront a 21st Century city-centric gayer. He doesn’t beat about the bush, nor use high brow dumbgeschpritz to get his message across. He’s been called " clubland’s therapist " and specialises in a plethora of topics. 
 
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"The ultimate expert in this field "
 
QX Magazine May 2009
 

Thanks for your messsage… I think your Swarmite blog and your contributions to Homovision are just wonderful… you are extremely skilled at delivering much insight into a highly complex range of issues in a very entertaining and wise, compassionate manner… and with humour! and that is not easy at all (am a writer and journalist too, btw). Caroline Simpson.


LOVE ‘n’ PAIN & the Whole Damn thing Blog : This has been so true for me and in my work..if you try to avoid life by papering over the cracks you struggle to create any relationship that can stand strong authentic and robust in the face of what life will present us with..I really enjoy you’re sharing of ideas feelings and last but not least your longevity of wisdom …tis truly generous and insight filled. Hugs all round x x x Catherine Foxron

I subscribed to your blog some time ago, can’t remember how I stumbled across it, and would like to tell you that I have been enjoying and felt warmed by the sheer intelligence of your writing. – Rob FowlergI s

MARY DELANEY on Facebook : I love your blog and god knows i need it :) ub

Lenka Jilek : what an AMAZING BLOG!!!!! I’ll go through all of it.. thanks for that, everything you write about I am deeply interested in… you even quote my favourite authors..:-) wow! xxxx!

 International DJ WAYNE G – Most inspirational person I know : David “Swarmite” Parker. Facebook him, he’s a therapist to celebrities and nut cases like myself. http://bk.asia-city.com/events/article/60-seconds-djs-wayne-and-hectorscribed to your blog some time ago, can’t remember how I stumbled across it, and would like to tell you that I have been enjoying and felt warmed by the sheer intelligence of your writing..

Anyway blah blah blah. The Swarmite blog offers life-coaching and therapy on a number of issues that can confront a 21st century city-centric gayer. He doesn’t beat about the bush, nor use hi-brow dumbgeschpritz to get his message across. He’s been called “clubland’s therapist” and specialises in a plethora of topics.

We love it.

There’s a lot of bollocks on the gay scene innit. There’s the pressures to have fun fun fun 24-7-52, develop tough titty tits, wear overpriced la la knickers, and shag like a porner. At the same time gaypers are twasting our minds with gobbledecock extremes ranging from backstreet twink Porn Idol competitions to DKNY aspirational lifestyles… and if you don’t keep a check on it you can easily wake up to find that the last ten years of your life you’ve been kidding yourself that trying to fit into any one of these lifestyles will MAKE. YOUR. LIFE. BETTER.

And in some instances, such occasions make us go a bit la la, a bit existential, a bit zinging, a bit zong. Some of us end up in therapy, some of us end up down the pub, some of us don’t say anything and carry on like nothing is wrong.

Anyway blah blah blah. The Swarmite blog offers life-coaching and therapy on a number of issues that can confront a 21st century city-centric gayer. He doesn’t beat about the bush, nor use hi-brow dumbgeschpritz to get his message across. He’s been called “clubland’s therapist” and specialises in a plethora of topics.

We love it.